One’s
identity is formed by experience, family or educational background, and
environment - including thought-to-be miserable ones, whether willing or not.
Though we do not recognize which factors contribute to forming our identity and
think that some elements are too insignificant to influence ourselves, every
piece of our lives is involved in the establishment of our identities. Oprah
Winfrey is no exception. A successful Talk show hostess, a producer, a Golden
Globe nominated actress, the founder of the popular "O, the Oprah
Magazine", the co founder of "Oxygen Media", and a generous
philanthropist – these are the titles that Oprah Winfrey now holds. Some might
assume that her life would have been smooth and easy. However, it was not an
easy road to become what she is now. The identity of “the Undisputed Queen of
Talk since the mid 1980s and the first black woman to host a nationally
syndicated weekday talk show” (no author, 1) is the result of not only good
experiences, but also hardships Oprah Winfrey went through including a poor
family background, sexual abuses, and dynamic rookie life.
Oprah
Winfrey’s unpleasing and unusual family background helped Winfrey become a
unique figure. She was raised up under poor, unmarried parents in a small farm
village that lacked chances for education and economic wealth. Her mother,
Vernita Lee gave birth to Oprah Winfrey at the age of 18. She did not know much
about her father, Vernon Winfrey, who was a soldier in the army in Alabama. Since
her father was not aware of her birth, he was astonished by the birth
certificate that was one day delivered to him, so he did not give any immediate
financial help. So, Oprah Winfrey’s childhood was worn out by poverty. When
Winfrey was four years old, her mother left her with her grandmother to
participate in the Great Migration to Wisconsin, a frontier where promised a
greater social mobility. The life in the farm was boring, tough and difficult. Her
grandmother, Hattie Mae Lee, was very strict with Winfrey, harshly punishing
her for any wrongdoings. However, Hattie believed in the importance of education
and afforded Winfrey’s kindergarten fee amid such poor financial circumstances.
So Winfrey could receive basic education such as arithmetic, reading, writing,
and biblical studies. Oprah later recalled, “I am what I am today because of my
grandmother; my strength, my sense of reasoning, everything.” (Winfrey) The
relationship between Winfrey and her grandmother is similar with that of
Frederick Douglass and his mistress in a sense that the chances of education
even in difficult circumstances provided circumstances for earning “valuable
bread of knowledge.” (Douglass, 45)
Frequent
and brutal instances of sexual abuses later became the reasons for building
Winfrey’s identity as a generous philanthropist. When her grandmother’s health
was at risk, Winfrey decided to move to her mother’s place in Wisconsin. Oprah expected
a new hopeful life, but faced even tougher conditions there. Vernita’s new
apartment was crowded with many relatives, who used it as a resting place.
However, the always-opened-door let a tragedy come in. When Winfrey was taking
care of her house for one night, a cousin raped her. She was scared and
confused, but did not let anybody know of the fact; she thought that nobody
would believe her just because she was a mere child. (Johnson & Fineman, 9)
From then, Oprah had to suffer from sexual abuses for several years. “I
suffered throughout several years from nine to fourteen, at my home, from
different man – this and that and cousins. I thought that those were all my
faults, there were something wrong with me.” (Barthel, 56) This horrendous
experience later emboldened her to stop further tragedies from happening. As
such Oprah now donates hundreds of dollars to various charities and
organizations that especially deals with African girls.
The
challenging first few years as a rookie contributed to her identity of a
successful career woman. An executive of WTVF Broadcast in Nashville thought
that Oprah Winfrey perfectly matched with the Affirmative Action, a new policy
that gave incentives to enterprises which hired the minorities. Knowing that
she was hired as “a pleasing symbol” (King, 79), Winfrey did not fully
appreciate her honored position. Her fortune, however, did not last long. When
she co-anchored with Jerry Turner in Baltimore, the executives and viewers
complained about Winfrey being often swept by emotions. However, such character
helped her start a new job as a co-MC of a local talk show, ‘People Are
Talking,’ which was a well-fitting suit to her. “When I finished my first show,
I thought, ‘Thank you, lord. I found my job. I feel comfortable like I am
breathing.’” (Anderson, 37) She then grabbed a chance to host ‘A.M. Chicago’,
which changed its title to ‘The Oprah Winfrey Show’ a year after. Her dynamic rookie
years enabled her to trace her inherent talent and identity.
“You
cannot tell merely by looking at one of these dots what it’s like” before you
carefully think about its roles in forming oneself. (Sagan, 7) Even in the case
of Oprah Winfrey, she might not have been selected as one of the ‘Figures of
the twentieth century’ by the Times without her awfully poor childhood, unceasing
sexual abuses from relatives, and somewhat unsuccessful rookie years. Winfrey
herself may not have thought that those unpleasing experiences could be used as
a foundation of her identity. However, undoubtedly, Winfrey’s identity was built
upon her every experience; whether it be of her happiest mornings or her
darkest nights.
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Bibliography
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“Meet Oprah Winfrey,” Good Housekeeping, August 1986, p.37.
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Joan Barthel,
“Oprah,” Ms., August 1986, p.56.
Marilyn Johnson
and Dana Fineman, “Oprah Winfrey: A Life in Books,” Life, September 1997, p.9.
Norman King, Everybody Loves Oprah! Her Remarkable Life
Story (New York: William Morrow and Company, 1987), p.79.
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Hosts HOPE worldwide Party in Soweto,”
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